2021-11-26

Online dating: pros and cons?

By Garry

Recently, online dating has become more and more popular. The preference for online communication is given not only by young people, but also by older people. After all, it is so convenient, without leaving the walls of your home, to make acquaintances around the world. And if you’re lucky, one online acquaintance can drastically change your life for the better and become an impetus for reaching new heights.

But is everything so rosy on dating sites?

Let’s weigh the pros and cons today, and everyone will draw their own conclusions for themselves!

As you know, every medal has a reverse side. Online dating can have serious side effects that can lead to disasters if not taken care of. When choosing online dating , you should be aware and understand that this can drastically affect your life, habits, routine. Before plunging headlong into the virtual world of passionate online dating , decide for yourself whether it is worth your time and nerves. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves, just remind you that prevention is better than cure!

For newbies, online dating is an amazing, new experience that immediately attracts attention, especially for those people who are already desperate to find their true love in real life. But do not place high expectations on dating sites where there is a place for both lies and deception. Having the opportunity to make several acquaintances at once, you first of all kill your precious time. You may not even notice how you start spending not half an hour of your time, but the whole evening talking with fans or female fans. Inoffensive online dating can easily turn into addiction, which takes up all your free time, not only in the evening after work, but also in the middle of the working day.

People who are prone to this kind of relationship, as a rule, forget about everything in the world and can, hanging their ears, sit at the computer almost all day, which can have a bad effect not only on the psyche, but also on the general state of health. If suddenly you are lucky enough to find a person you like, who, on the other side of the screen, also loves to kill time for this kind of communication, then you simply, without noticing it, start skipping meals, a normal night’s sleep and even avoiding your direct duties.

And these people, without noticing it, begin to move away from family and friends, constantly experiencing sharp mood swings. There are times when problems with a computer or phone become an obstacle on the way to communicating with your new virtual friend. This can greatly spoil the mood of such online addicts who are used to being online all the time. They feel depressed, upset, constantly grumble, and they are also annoyed and enraged by any trifle or trifle.

To all of the above, you can add a couple of obvious disadvantages of online dating:

  • The risk of falling for a deceiver

Scammers are a major problem with many dating sites . Among ordinary people, users slip by who create profiles on such sites with the aim of fraud and extortion of money. Having met and having entered into your trust, such people begin to hint at some difficulties in life, say that they are now going through a difficult period, and that you are just their last salvation. By the kindness of your heart, you begin to transfer money to your “friend”, but in reality it turns out that this is the purest water of fraud, and you were simply bribed for money. Left at the broken trough, you start biting your elbows, and this friend went further along the site to look for new victims.

  •  Payment of the membership fee on the website

Yes, many sites provide free use of their services, but if you want to get full access and take advantage of all the functions and features of the online dating server , you will have to pay a certain amount of money.

But that’s enough about the disadvantages.

It’s actually not all bad with these online dating sites.

There are clear advantages in this business. On dating sites over a wide range of men and women, as they say for every taste and age. Fill in your profile with the necessary information, upload a photo and wait for a response from users to your candidacy, or do not waste time and look for the desired option yourself, using the various functionality of narrowing the search in accordance with your needs (by age, by interests, by the location you are interested in).

Online dating is a kind of fortune. After all, you never know who you are actually chatting with online until the very moment when both of you decide on a real meeting or at least on a video meeting online. Riddle and ignorance warms up interest and creates intrigue that pushes us to the most courageous actions. Go to a meeting with your new friend in London, Paris, New York, or maybe he invites you to spend a joint vacation somewhere on the ocean? Why not!

The Internet has abruptly turned our lives upside down and brought dating to a whole new level. Many people on dating sites do not just make new friends, but even meet their soul mate, get married and get married, change their place of residence, go on trips, get to know the world. And is that bad !?