How to fill out a profile for a girl on a dating site so that no guy passes by

By Garry

If you are a woman, you are chosen. Even when you choose. How do they choose? No wisdom. First – the face and figure. Then – a rich spiritual world. True, even an enchanting portfolio will not save a profile that did not “catch on” or left an unpleasant aftertaste. Let’s find out how to correctly fill out a questionnaire on a dating site for a girl so that the search does not stretch out for years, and its intermediate results do not become the reason for a visit to a psychotherapist.

What you need to write in the questionnaire

Do not hurry. It is more difficult to write a self-presentation about yourself beautifully and concisely than it seems. We will agree right away, discussing advantageous positions, we will keep in mind the prospect of a serious relationship. If you are interested in sex, one nude photo and two words will essentially be enough. Go!


And although Oscar Wilde said that “a woman was created in order to love her, and not in order to understand her,” make a clear and intelligible idea of ​​yourself. First, you will be “understood” (identified). Then – “love”. It doesn’t matter which portal the profile is on – dating site, Facebook or VK. Positioning is the foundation of any virtual self. Keep in mind, guys are still attracted to femininity, softness and mystery. And still repelled by “bitches”, “queens” and “glamorous”.

To write about yourself beautifully, succinctly and in detail is in the column “information about yourself” or any other where freedom of speech is provided. Here charisma has the ability to speak out loudly. But watch the image. Having declared yourself “faithful and devoted”, do not pose for a photo in a negligee.

  • Don’t make the man think about who you really are. The conclusions will always not be in your favor. Draw a specific and understandable image.
  • Even if you are applying for premium quality, you do not need to talk about it out loud. The correct strategy is not to ask for a price, but to present a “product”.

And do not forget, the name colors a person. Be honest (Anya) or draw attention to yourself (Game-In-Life) – decide for yourself. The main thing is without vulgarities (Cat), innuendo (Take-Me-I-Yours) and abbreviations (qwerty123).

What to write about yourself: examples

A good example of what you can write about yourself on Instagram, VKontakte, on a dating site:

“There is an elegant lady at the buffet table. In life, she is a mischievous girl. I turn everyday life into holidays. You want to meet? If you love life and are ready for a bright but serious relationship, we will understand each other perfectly. Write! ”

The following girl is also likely to be lucky:

“In any difficult life situation, I remain an optimist. I believe in people and that I will meet here a worthy person who needs love and support. To the man I love, I will give all my care and tenderness. Let’s get acquainted!”.

“Do you also think that without love, even in the brightest life, something is missing? Are you looking for a devoted companion and hostess who knows how to create comfort? You can be congratulated! You found me. Tell us about yourself – it is very important for me what you are interested in. I’m waiting for your message! ” Attaching a photo of a smiling girl to such a profile, you will get married in the near future. By the way, about marriage.

Who are we looking for

Whom are you looking for? Husband? Lover? Sponsor? Order, but without “demand”. Everyone wants the perfect thing. List the key traits that will resonate with everyone: reliable, smart, strong. “Wealthy”, “financially secure” – will scare off even the “sponsor”. One in 100 wealthy men will agree to be a cash cow. 99 will give a villa in Nice to the one who is looking for “smart”, “strong” and “independent”.

Why are we looking

Do not get carried away with literary creativity. It is important not only to describe yourself in an interesting way, but to get a return on the questionnaire. A beautiful romance, marriage, sex – your right to pursue any goal. It is your responsibility to reach the right audience. Be careful when filling out the “Purposes of acquaintance” column. Marriage and sex for 1-2 times in one profile are inappropriate. Explore our ranking of dating sites – and find the dating portal that best suits your needs. Our detailed description of the site and reviews of real users will help you navigate the choice.

Guy bait

Wise girls understand that interests are the most advantageous place in the profile. Take your time to write in the section that is interesting to you. The goal is to anchor. Instead of shopping and ballet, indicate: travel, hiking, cooking, football. And only then – crocheting: “I can talk about hockey, fishing and your other hobbies. I prefer to share the interests of my man than to spend time shopping. ” Or: “I love men who love home cooking, scrambled eggs and pancakes for breakfast and baked meat for dinner. And what do you like? I’m sure I can cook it! ” Appetizing?

More optimism

We are now not talking about what they usually write about in the profile: “I have a great sense of humor.” The questionnaire should be permeated with humor. If you can’t humor, take it with optimism. Filling out the questionnaire with light and light text is difficult, but sweat it. You are His outlet, not a problem.

No photo anywhere

Whatever you write, men love with their eyes. I recommend ordering studio photography instead of just another pair of shoes. The investment will pay off. Do you want it yourself? Forget about duck lips, selfies and guess me photography. The pictures are clear, of good quality, no less than ten. Smile, play with your eyes, present yourself from different angles. Don’t dig in the archives. Only fresh photos. As for eroticism, light is appropriate. Instincts must be used, but skillfully. Not “nude”, but “but”, “maybe.” Like Marilyn Monroe at Kennedy’s birthday party.

What you don’t need to write in the questionnaire

Self-presentation can scare off potential life mates for a variety of reasons. An example of 100% failure in positioning is narcissism (“I am in the world?”). Of course, no doubt about it, but there are millions of profiles on the dating site. The competition is wild. Keep with you the royal habits: “I am a woman, and in the world all roads lead to me, and not to some Rome. I am a woman, I am chosen by God … “. There are a million roads on the dating site, and they try to bypass the “chosen ones”. Don’t make other popular mistakes – for example, don’t write about anything.

About nothing

Sample “about nothing” questionnaire: “I am sincere, sociable, with a sense of humor. I like to chat with friends, go to the movies. I love to travel and learn new things. ” The characteristic of this girl is “about nothing”. Only youth and outstanding external data will save her from fiasco.

Do not require

Some girls show an unquenchable passion to demand. How interesting it is to write about yourself, they are the last to care. Rule: do not make more than two requirements. And a real woman does not demand, but receives. Because he knows how to present himself. In contrast to the girl who wrote the following: “Give me the best, dear. Not that pants, but jewelry. Carry me in your arms, and I will climb on my neck myself. ” It is unlikely that someone will give her such an opportunity. And the next girl will be offered more opportunities: “I don’t have a long list of requirements for a man. I’m not looking for an ideal. I just want to meet a person with whom we will have common interests. ”

Do not bend

What can you write about yourself if you are a bright, successful and ambitious girl? Don’t try to be even more perfect. Go down to earth so as not to scare everyone away. Before you write “I am a beautiful diamond that requires an expensive setting”, think about what you really want – a frame or a life partner. What do you think, a successful girl should “keep the bar” and “set the level”? Successful men, by the way, don’t like competitors. As well as those who, in an attempt to present themselves in an original way, sort out and evoke a strong association with the heroes of Lewis Carroll. And it’s good if it’s Alice and not the Hatter.

Soul wide open

Take your time to lay out everything at once, including the details of the figure. It is possible to interest a guy in nude photography, but the stronger sex does not consider girls with such a portfolio as life companions. Pedigree, rich inner world, difficult financial situation, sexual fantasies, “I love”, “I do not love” … Keep the intrigue. Be a mystery. Let him find out later. However, tell us something now.

Details matter

Don’t hide your height and weight. What’s the point? Show off your figure in a subtle way in your portfolio. And honestly admit the weaknesses that are of fundamental importance. Casinos, cats, tobacco, tattoos – everything that you cannot live without and that you do not intend to withdraw.


Summing up

  • When wondering what to write about yourself on a dating site, start from the goal. “I want to get married” and “I want sex” are different profiles.
  • Be original. The competition is high. Make yourself stand out. Write about yourself briefly, succinctly and beautifully. You must be remembered.
  • Find a balance between real and virtual I. To keep it simple – be honest, and embellish – conform.

Choose a dating site from our rating. But before you start a profile on the site, study its features. Our reviews will help you in choosing, and our advice will save you from common mistakes. The rest is in your hands. Good luck!

And finally, here are some good and bad examples of questionnaires.

This is how most profiles look like:

  • I am affectionate, romantic, caring, loyal, sincere and very sociable. An excellent hostess with a great sense of humor. I love listening to music, reading, traveling and chatting with friends. I dream of meeting an honest, decent, financially secure man in order to create a strong family, which will be based on love and mutual understanding. (A lot of epithets and a blurry image)
  • I have a lot of interests in life. In my free time I like to meet friends, we have a great time in restaurants and cafes. Quite often I go to the theater, I like to watch ballet. On weekends I go to museums, cinema, beautiful parks. I love to travel. I have already visited many countries, but there are still so many places where I would like to go. My favorite sport is swimming. (You will certainly not be interested in restaurants, cafes and ballet, but for your love of travel – a plus)

And such questionnaires are quite rare:

  • A romantic, pretty and friendly girl. A bit sentimental. I don’t like it when people lie to me. I like to read books and fall asleep under the sound of rain. I want to meet a guy for whom the main value in life is family. (Short but succinct description)
  • I am a journalist, model and just a good person. Only so far I don’t have the only one to whom I would like to devote my life! I like to order Americano coffee in Arabica, the first greens in spring, summer rain, and in winter, just like freshly fallen snow creaks underfoot. I love it when life is in full swing around, as I myself am very active and sociable. I don’t like it when people try to manipulate me, I don’t like it when I’m scared or cold …  I want to find a serious young man with a strong character, who is confident in himself, knows how to appreciate, respect and love a woman. The one who is able to turn the most ordinary day into a holiday. Having met my special man, I would like to create such a relationship so that I always understand each other without words. (Frank and pretty, but a little too long)
  • I’d rather remain a mystery than write platitudes or embellished reality in order to get married as soon as possibleI want to meet a young man in order to create a family with him in the future, which will be a small kingdom, where relatives and friends are very welcome, but most of all they value time spent alone with each other